Wednesday, June 20, 2012

Few Updates...

It's been a busy week...and I definitely needed time to reflect on why my EH has left me. Let me tell you it's not easy hearing that you were partly responsible for pushing someone to their limits. I say partly, because I do feel that my EH could have addressed this sooner and that we could have possibly worked on our relationship rather than him just up and opting out of it one day.

He did, however,  happen to text my Dad for Father's Day, wishing him a Happy Father's Day and a belated Happy Mother's Day/Get Well for my mom. It was the first time he made contact with my parents through out this whole ordeal. He even said he missed them. It kind of hurt knowing he misses them but when it comes to me, he doesn't. But that's the way it is, and there's nothing I can do to change it. All I can do is work on who I am today and how I want to be going forward.

Anyways as for my updates...first the Sparkletts salesman called the office I worked at wanting to know why the cute girl he met hadn't called him. Thankfully I wasn't there, but my co-worker who happened to answer informed him that she wasn't the cute girl and that it was inappropriate for him to call. Hopefully that will be the end of that.

Secondly, I wasn't at the office because...drum roll please...I was promoted at my other job which has enabled me to have only one, that's right one, job. I'm so excited and can't wait to start my new position, which will be this Sunday. So good luck to me! High five, high five : )

Thirdly, I went to Cars Land with my sister, brother in law, and niece. It was by far one of my best days since the big D. If I could show you the video my brother in law made, I would. Instead I will have to settle with just being able to  share with you this Cars Land photo.








So if you were thinking about going but weren't too sure, the answer is yes. You need to take a trip to Cars Land at California Adventure and then of course head over to Disneyland. Because there is nothing more magical than walking down Main Street. Every time I go to Disneyland, my heart is filled with joy.

I was nervous about going, because my EH and I LOVED going to Disneyland. We had annual passes and sometimes we would just go for dinner or we would sit on this stoop and eat ice cream and people watch for hours. I visited the stoop (pictured below) and reminisced on all the amazing memories we shared there together. It was our very own special spot in Disneyland and seeing it made me realize how lucky I am to have had a love as great as I did with him. That my friends is why I will never be bitter or angry. It is why I will want the best for him. It is why I will honor his wishes and remove myself from his life. I love him that much.


As for my vegan lifestyle...it is going wonderfully! It is definitely a challenge to eat Vegan and Gluten Free, but I am managing it. One of these days I will start posting recipes, pictures, and places to visit if you are curious about what to eat, where to eat, and how to eat like me : )

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