Change...what does change really mean for your life? For me, it means growth. I know I've said it before, but I think it's worth repeating again. When you are thrown into uncomfortable situations, I believe, you grow. Well...let me reword that. When I am thrown into an uncomfortable situation, I tend to grow as a person.
Especially when the situation is unfamiliar. Whether it's divorce, a shift at work, a new relationship, whatever the situation that I may be faced with, unexpected or expected, there is one thing I can be sure of when facing those moments head on. I will grow. I will learn something new about myself.
And in the end I am left being a stronger, more intuitive, person.
When we remove doubt and fear from the equation, the decisions we make are rooted from a positive space.
I used to doubt the decisions I made that led me to where I am today. I used to think it would have been better if I never dated my EH...if I never married him. And when I expressed this to the therapist I saw right after I was initially told I was being divorced, she told me that in order to stop doubting myself and regretting my past, I would need to start understanding that the decisions I made that led me where I am today were the best decisions I could have made for myself at that moment.
Looking at my past now, I am grateful for everything I have been through. Because my past has led me to where I am today. And I am pretty happy about who and where I am today...and by pretty happy, I really mean I am extremely happy of who and where I am today.
So for all of you experiencing change in your life...embrace it. Be comforted by the fact that growth is on the horizon, if you allow it to be.
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