It's something he has wanted to do long before he met me, and to be honest the long distance thing doesn't work after a while. A point we are nearly hitting.
Part of the issue is after not having someone around for a month at a time, you get use to your daily routine and being on your own. Then for 5 days that person is around and you have to readjust. Then they leave and you are finding that you have to go back to being okay with being alone.
It's a very difficult pattern to get use to and frankly one we are a little tired of.
So he is moving down and we will be moving in together. I'm of course excited, but at the same time nervous.
You see, part of not seeing someone for a month at a time also means not having to see each other's tendencies. And I don't know how he'll feel about me after living with me for some time.
Not that I am entirely difficult to live with, but I like to live my life a certain way and I'm hoping he will fit right into that.
Of course, I have changed over the last year and some odd months, so who I was as a partner before isn't going to be how I am today, tomorrow, or a month from now.
It will be interesting to see how this transition pans out. I suspect there will be a lot of love, laughter, and happiness. At least I'm hoping there will be.
P.S. I saw this post about long distance relationships and it made me laugh...hopefully you will enjoy too : )
Long-Distance Relationships
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