10+ miles and 24 obstacles later, Bear, myself and a few of my co-workers/friends made it through a Tough Mudder.
And although I walked away with many scrapes and bruises...it wasn't the obstacles that got to me. It were the damn hills. They were never ending and just when we thought we had finished climbing the last one, there were three more.
I can honestly say that without the help of Bear and my team I would have not enjoyed the challenge as much as I did.
There is something about jumping into an ice bath, being shocked, climbing ten foot walls, etc. that is exciting and fun. I was surprised how much I enjoyed the obstacles and how mentally challenging the hills were for me. But every time I was faced with a hill, Bear was there helping me up them. Just like he does every day.
It was the perfect way to spend our year anniversary, and I can't wait for us to do another Tough Mudder. Although next time, I will be carrying sunscreen with me, since this one left me with a bad sunburn.
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Monday, March 31, 2014
Wednesday, March 26, 2014
Wish Us Luck...
I can't believe Bear and I will be celebrating our year anniversary this Saturday. At times, it almost feels as though I have just met him, and other times that I have known him my whole life.
The last couple days we spent a part from each other as I attended a conference for work. And all those same feels of being separated from each other, as it was when we first met, came flooding back to me.
In the beginning, Bear lived in another state, and we were lucky if we got to see each other every few weeks. Those weeks were some of the most difficult, but some of the most amazing times. We would spend hours talking with each other and getting to know one another on a deeper level.
Although at the time it was such a challenge not seeing each other, I now see the value that it brought to our relationship.
For our one year anniversary, I bought Bear the only thing that would make sense...a ticket to do the Tough Mudder with me. If you haven't heard of it before, the link below will give you a glimpse into how it is Bear and I will be celebrating.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tqigr5nVYkQ#t=21
So wish us luck...
The last couple days we spent a part from each other as I attended a conference for work. And all those same feels of being separated from each other, as it was when we first met, came flooding back to me.
In the beginning, Bear lived in another state, and we were lucky if we got to see each other every few weeks. Those weeks were some of the most difficult, but some of the most amazing times. We would spend hours talking with each other and getting to know one another on a deeper level.
Although at the time it was such a challenge not seeing each other, I now see the value that it brought to our relationship.
For our one year anniversary, I bought Bear the only thing that would make sense...a ticket to do the Tough Mudder with me. If you haven't heard of it before, the link below will give you a glimpse into how it is Bear and I will be celebrating.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tqigr5nVYkQ#t=21
So wish us luck...
Thursday, August 29, 2013
Wonderful Beginning...
3 states, 3 days, 1300 miles and we are finally here!
Bear has moved from Washington to California and we are beginning a new journey together. One which I know will be full of love and laughter.
It was a great road trip...and I learned a lot about myself.
I learned I am a pretty decent camper. I can sit in a car packed full of bags with my suitcase beneath my feet and a carry on bag in between me and the passenger door for 1300 miles. I sleep a lot. Seriously, I slept for about 2-3 hours each day; curled up into a ball. I learned I'm not terrified of lions, tigers, or bears. And most importantly that I can eat a pretty fair amount of junk food.
It was an amazing adventure, and I am so happy to be settling in with Bear. What a wonderful beginning.
Bear has moved from Washington to California and we are beginning a new journey together. One which I know will be full of love and laughter.
It was a great road trip...and I learned a lot about myself.
I learned I am a pretty decent camper. I can sit in a car packed full of bags with my suitcase beneath my feet and a carry on bag in between me and the passenger door for 1300 miles. I sleep a lot. Seriously, I slept for about 2-3 hours each day; curled up into a ball. I learned I'm not terrified of lions, tigers, or bears. And most importantly that I can eat a pretty fair amount of junk food.
It was an amazing adventure, and I am so happy to be settling in with Bear. What a wonderful beginning.
Thursday, August 8, 2013
Routine...
It's amazing how comfortable we can get with a routine.
Work out, talk to Bear, work, eat dinner, talk to Bear, go to sleep and do it all over again. Sometimes not in that order, but you get the idea.
A couple days ago Bear went to Denmark to visit his sister, brother in law, and nephew. I couldn't be more excited and happy for him, but I've noticed that the parts of my day that were dedicated to him...whelp I'm left wondering what to do with all of that time.
And it hit me. In just 5 months, I've become so use to having Bear in my life, that I've forgotten what it's like to not have him around. Even though he lives in Washington, we are still easily able to Face Time, text, and call each other.
Now that he is in Denmark, it isn't that easy. And I can't believe that I've already become so accustomed to having him in my life, that my days right now are filled with big gaps.
Although my ideal day includes Bear, I am looking forward to having more time to read...time to have lunch/dinner with friends...and possibly get in a nap or two.
When Bear first left for Denmark, I wasn't sure how I would deal with a change in my routine, but now I'm looking forward to it. I have a feeling it will be good for my mind, body, and soul.
Work out, talk to Bear, work, eat dinner, talk to Bear, go to sleep and do it all over again. Sometimes not in that order, but you get the idea.
A couple days ago Bear went to Denmark to visit his sister, brother in law, and nephew. I couldn't be more excited and happy for him, but I've noticed that the parts of my day that were dedicated to him...whelp I'm left wondering what to do with all of that time.
And it hit me. In just 5 months, I've become so use to having Bear in my life, that I've forgotten what it's like to not have him around. Even though he lives in Washington, we are still easily able to Face Time, text, and call each other.
Now that he is in Denmark, it isn't that easy. And I can't believe that I've already become so accustomed to having him in my life, that my days right now are filled with big gaps.
Although my ideal day includes Bear, I am looking forward to having more time to read...time to have lunch/dinner with friends...and possibly get in a nap or two.
When Bear first left for Denmark, I wasn't sure how I would deal with a change in my routine, but now I'm looking forward to it. I have a feeling it will be good for my mind, body, and soul.
Saturday, July 27, 2013
Blank: A Vinylmation Love Story
Love, what does it mean? Specifically, what does it mean to you?
Webster's Dictionary describes love as the following:
a (1) : strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties <maternal love for a child> (2) : attraction based on sexual desire : affection and tenderness felt by lovers (3) : affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests <love for his old schoolmates>
But as we all know love can mean so much more.
Over the last year and 4 months, I have been witness to my brother in law, along with a team of 4 other guys, develop and create a stop motion love story based on the Vinylmation figurines. If you don't know what those are, here's a link to help you out: Vinylmation: What is it?
This story is not only about the strong bond and love between Blank and Bow, but also about finding one's identity.
It's when we find our identities, find what makes us happy in life, that we can truly have a love story that lasts for decades.
When I watch this trailer, and I suspect when I watch all 12 episodes, I will take away something different from each of you, as this story allows each of its viewers to walk away with their own perception and meaning of love.
Because this is a silent film, we are able to create a dialogue for the characters, thus walking away with something that feels much more personal than anything we have ever experienced before.
These film makers are not forcing us to feel what they want us to feel, when they want us to feel, they are giving us the opportunity to create our own love story. We will cry, laugh, and feel a wide range of emotions throughout this series and not all at the same time.
What a gift to be given.
I hope you enjoy.
Webster's Dictionary describes love as the following:
a (1) : strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties <maternal love for a child> (2) : attraction based on sexual desire : affection and tenderness felt by lovers (3) : affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests <love for his old schoolmates>
But as we all know love can mean so much more.
Over the last year and 4 months, I have been witness to my brother in law, along with a team of 4 other guys, develop and create a stop motion love story based on the Vinylmation figurines. If you don't know what those are, here's a link to help you out: Vinylmation: What is it?
This story is not only about the strong bond and love between Blank and Bow, but also about finding one's identity.
It's when we find our identities, find what makes us happy in life, that we can truly have a love story that lasts for decades.
When I watch this trailer, and I suspect when I watch all 12 episodes, I will take away something different from each of you, as this story allows each of its viewers to walk away with their own perception and meaning of love.
Because this is a silent film, we are able to create a dialogue for the characters, thus walking away with something that feels much more personal than anything we have ever experienced before.
These film makers are not forcing us to feel what they want us to feel, when they want us to feel, they are giving us the opportunity to create our own love story. We will cry, laugh, and feel a wide range of emotions throughout this series and not all at the same time.
What a gift to be given.
I hope you enjoy.
Wednesday, July 24, 2013
Moving...
In a little over a month Bear will be moving to California...yes you read that correctly.
It's something he has wanted to do long before he met me, and to be honest the long distance thing doesn't work after a while. A point we are nearly hitting.
Part of the issue is after not having someone around for a month at a time, you get use to your daily routine and being on your own. Then for 5 days that person is around and you have to readjust. Then they leave and you are finding that you have to go back to being okay with being alone.
It's a very difficult pattern to get use to and frankly one we are a little tired of.
So he is moving down and we will be moving in together. I'm of course excited, but at the same time nervous.
You see, part of not seeing someone for a month at a time also means not having to see each other's tendencies. And I don't know how he'll feel about me after living with me for some time.
Not that I am entirely difficult to live with, but I like to live my life a certain way and I'm hoping he will fit right into that.
Of course, I have changed over the last year and some odd months, so who I was as a partner before isn't going to be how I am today, tomorrow, or a month from now.
It will be interesting to see how this transition pans out. I suspect there will be a lot of love, laughter, and happiness. At least I'm hoping there will be.
P.S. I saw this post about long distance relationships and it made me laugh...hopefully you will enjoy too : )
Long-Distance Relationships
It's something he has wanted to do long before he met me, and to be honest the long distance thing doesn't work after a while. A point we are nearly hitting.
Part of the issue is after not having someone around for a month at a time, you get use to your daily routine and being on your own. Then for 5 days that person is around and you have to readjust. Then they leave and you are finding that you have to go back to being okay with being alone.
It's a very difficult pattern to get use to and frankly one we are a little tired of.
So he is moving down and we will be moving in together. I'm of course excited, but at the same time nervous.
You see, part of not seeing someone for a month at a time also means not having to see each other's tendencies. And I don't know how he'll feel about me after living with me for some time.
Not that I am entirely difficult to live with, but I like to live my life a certain way and I'm hoping he will fit right into that.
Of course, I have changed over the last year and some odd months, so who I was as a partner before isn't going to be how I am today, tomorrow, or a month from now.
It will be interesting to see how this transition pans out. I suspect there will be a lot of love, laughter, and happiness. At least I'm hoping there will be.
P.S. I saw this post about long distance relationships and it made me laugh...hopefully you will enjoy too : )
Long-Distance Relationships
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